Colin Powell on Families & Children
Promise One: Ongoing relationships with caring adults
Communities need to provide all young people with sustained adult relationships through which they experience support, care, guidance, and advocacy. Ideally, youth develop sustained connections with: - Parents or other caregivers.
- Extended
family members.
- Neighbors and other adults youth see in their daily lives.
- Adults who spend time with youth through schools and programs, including coaches, teachers, mentors, child care workers, youth workers, and employers.
Powell says, “We need to make sure that no boy or girl in America is growing up without having in his or her life the presence of a responsible, caring adult. Where else does a child learn how to behave? Where else does a child
learn the experience of the past, the totems and traditions of the past? Where else does a child look for the proper examples except from responsible, caring, loving adults in his or her life.”
Source: America’s Promise Web Page
Jan 8, 2001
Promise Two: Safe places during nonschool hours
Young people need structure, and they need to be physically and emotionally safe. Providing safe places and structured activities has many benefits both to young people and society. This promise can: - Connect youth to principled and caring adults.
- Nurture young people’s skills and capacities, including social skills, vocational interests, and civic responsibility.
- Protect youth from violence and other dangerous or negative influences.
- Create a peer group that exerts positive
influence on each other.
- Provide opportunities for children and youth to contribute to their community and society.
- Enrich young people’s academic performance and educational commitment.
Powell says, “It is just common sense that if we don’t
provide young people with some kind of sanctuary - I call them ‘safe places’ - and give kids something constructive to do once the last bell rings, they are going to be easy marks for drug dealers, gang recruiters and other predators.”
Source: America’s Promise Web Page
Jan 8, 2001
GOP values fuel families; families build communities
Our vision [in the Republican Party] rests on values. Values because they are the conscience of a society. Values which must be lived and not just preached. Children learn values by watching their parents in their homes. Values which are then reinforced
in their churches and places of worship, in their schools and in the communities in which they live. And values fuel families. Families that are bound together by love and commitment. Families that then have the strength to withstand the assaults
of contemporary life -- to resist the images of violence and vulgarity that flood into their lives every day. Families that come together as communities to defeat the scourge of drugs and crime and incivility that threatens us. That’s why
we Republicans believe that the family, fueled by values, must be restored to the central place in American life if we are to keep the dream alive.
Source: Speech to the Republican National Convention
Aug 12, 1996
A sense of shame is not a bad moral compass
We say we are appalled by the rise of sexually transmitted disease, by the wave of teenage pregnancies, by violent crime. Yet we drench ourselves in depictions of explicit sex and crime on television, in movies, and in pop music.
A sense of shame is not a bad moral compass. I remember who easy it was for my mother to snap me back into line with a simple rebuke: “I’m ashamed of you. You embarrassed the family.” I wonder where our national sense of shame has gone.
Source: My American Journey, by Colin Powell, p. 594
Jan 1, 1995